Levi’s pediatrician told us that we should take Levi’s pacifiers away by the end of the summer…especially before Baby Brother arrives. Levi’s pacis stay in his crib for the most part. He only uses them to sleep. But he loves them. And it is hard to take away something that your baby loves…maybe I am just too much of a pushover. We have been talking about it for weeks now, but putting it off. Mostly because we really like to sleep and a baby crying for his pacis at night didn’t sound too appealing. Finally this weekend we decided that if we were going to take them away we had better do it now. We weren’t sure if that was a good decision with the baby coming so soon, but we decided to give it a shot.
We went around the house and collected all the pacis we could find. He usually has three in his bed. One in his mouth and one in each hand. We put them all in a box. Levi had fun packing them all up and then dumping them out again.
A few sweet moments with his beloved pacis. The orange one is his favorite.
We packed them all up one last time.
We told Levi that we were going to mail his pacis away because he was a big boy now. When daddy came home from feeding the cows I snuck out to the mailbox and put a box for Levi in it.
Joel and Levi walked out to the mailbox with the box of pacis.
He loves getting the mail, so we were just crossing our fingers that this would work.
Really we had no idea what we were doing. What would we do if he wouldn’t leave the pacis in the mailbox? What if he couldn’t sleep without them? Parenting is such hard work.
Levi got out the box that was in the mailbox and put his box of pacis in.
Goodbye pacis. So far so good…no tears.
Daddy helped Levi open his “paci replacement”. Again, we had no idea if this would work.
Thankfully, when he opened the box he loved his little alligator. He thought it was great. We went to Wichita and the alligator came too. That night when we got home he went to bed with the alligator and his blanket. He didn’t even ask about his pacis. No tears. Nothing. It was a miracle! I was ready to give myself parent of the year award…just kidding…I know it had nothing to do with my parenting skills.
In the morning when I went in his room he was holding his alligator and all smiles. It is his new bedtime buddy.
Levi has been doing awesome at night. I really can hardly believe it. Now, naps have been a different story. I have had to let him cry himself to sleep most days. Sad. But he is already getting better. Yay! We are just praying that this doesn’t all backfire on us when Baby Brother arrives.
Goodbye pacis…hello Ally the Alligator.